I remember when I was first dipping my toes back into BDSM, and I was trying to imagine what 24/7 would look like.  And over the years have had many moments where it felt like I was doing it wrong.  Though then I remember a quote from the end of the movie “Secretary” that sums it up well, “All our activities melted into an everyday sort of life… until we looked like any other couple you’d see.”

Our friends even get …