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Monthly Archives: June 2009

Swinging Isn’t BDSM

Swinging is a term that relates to sex.  Typically with sex partners who have sex with other people.  Swingers actually have their own scene.  It’s large, has it’s own events, it’s own clubs.  Some of which are nicer than many …

Switch Space

86ca2efef2ef4f8e6c069187db93327a_20090717124933_510There is a lot written about sub space, as well as top space.  Both I find very enjoyable, and they are both unique.  However, they aren’t my favorite, and my kind …

Why I do This

I said to an old friend last night, “Who would have ever thought I’d turn out to be a pyro?”  I was the kid who was afraid to move their finger through the candle flame.  In March 2004 I saw …

Trauma and Recovery

Last summer I got into a long standing arguement with a dominant over whether or not recovery was an ongoing process, or is it possible to be recovered.  As to remain in recovery focuses on continual progress and growth, though …