SHEisReedS
the art of deviancy

Monthly Archives: April 2009

Adversarial Dynamics (switch/switch)

I often get asked how does it work with another switch?

It’s simple: we fight constantly.

We’re both D/s, S/m, and insanely aggressive. Verbally and physically. To be clear though we also have a relationship outside the fighting, and with all the …

Condom Safety: Latex Allergy, Alternatives and Breaks

I had the fortunate misfortune of getting into BDSM very young. Early on into my first serious D/s dynamic at the age of 19 my dominant partner injured my inner left labia (it’s actually still disfigured). We were also into …